Henry is wishing you a happy easter!!! As he celebrates Jesus rising from the dead, he is also thinking about his own resurrected body – and it’s pretty awesome!
Thank you Jesus for your sacrifice so we can have hope! Come Lord Jesus, come!
I created him at an Access Arts workshop. He has a depressive disorder & FND. He also loves pink flowers, art, the theatre, chocolate, going on adventures and talking about uncomfortable but important issues.
Keep an eye out for his fun adventures – he’s just taken a trip to space to spread awareness & break stigma about mental illness across the galaxy.
Mighty God, Powerful Saviour;
I just want to leave it all behind, forever.
my sleep is restless, fragmented.
I have no greater enemy than myself.
I feel stuck in the depths of this pit of despair.
you never leave me alone in the mess.
and the web of lies my brain has caught me in.
and bring me into your glorious light.
Don’t leave me alone and abandoned in this lifeless pit.
as you fulfil them every day.
When the facilitator at diversional therapy tells you to make and write a postcard to your future self…
#turtlelove #diversiontherapy #christmaspresentideas #futureself #reminder #crafty #arttherapy
I made a person. Apparently I can sew #domesticgoddess #wifemenow #diversiontherapy #craft
And back to the face painting for Chappy Day!
One of my strategies for managing chronic depression is getting out of the house every day. When I’m having an episode, most days I open my eyes, sigh with frustration and then begin the battle of my inner dialogue…
“Oh, another day. Time to get out o…”
“… close your eyes and stay in bed – just ten more minutes. Feel how tired you are!”
10 minutes later
“Okay, now I really have to get out of be…”
“…staying in bed won’t hurt anyone. You’ve had a busy few days. Besides, nothing bad can happen if you stay here in your comfortable, warm bed.”
“But, but I don’t want to waste the day…”
… and it continues. I am so glad that after years of unhealthily late sleep-in’s and ridiculously late nights, I’ve learnt;
a) that getting out of bed, despite my feelings is beneficial to my mental health, and
b) I can put strategies in place to make getting out of bed and out of the house every day possible.
So, here are a few strategies:
1. I acknowledge I am blessed to have a part-time job that I love, so three days a week I am obliged to get out of the house, and it has made a massive difference to my mental health. Don’t have a job or can’t be employed? Try volunteering; it’s commitment without the pressure. Before I was well enough to have paid employment, I volunteered at a local kids club, at church and for a mutual-help support group.
2. Organise to have a tea/coffee at a cute cafe least once a week with a ‘no pressure’ friend.
3. Spread out doctors, specialist and support appointments so they are on different days.
4. Access your local community centre or mental health support service. There are plenty of organisations funded by the government who organise activities (e.g. choirs, art lessons, computer tutorials, community gardens and tours) and mutual support groups for people with mental or physical illnesses.
5. Don’t do a massive grocery shop, rather, get what I need for a day or two. This forces you to go out and get a few groceries 3-4 days a week. This has the added benefit of cooking with/eating fresh fruit, veggies and meat.
6. Make bookings! I love going to the theatre and the cinema. Booking tickets in advance can force you out of the house, lest you waste good money on something fun.
7. Make a list of all the things you enjoy doing when my mental health is good and give a copy to those in your support network. It can often be obsolete to say, ‘do something you enjoy’ to a depressed person as a symptom of depression is that you can’t think of something you could enjoy. This is where my list comes in handy, it reminds me (and others) of the activities that can get me out of the house/bed and will improve my mood – even if it’s a smidgen, it’s worth it.
8. Give yourself credit where credit is due and don’t be hard on yourself when you do stay in bed or the house all day. Learning to manage mental illness is a long learning process. Write-off a bad day and have an early night because tomorrow is a new day.
I’ll be the first to admit that balancing mental health strategies with physical illnesses can make this harder; for example, I’ve had non-stop dizziness for five days and can’t drive, leave the house or operate machinery (in this case some appliances/hot stovetop).
For these sick or flare-up days, my goal is to get out of bed, brush my teeth and eat my meals or watch Netflix while sitting in the sun. If I can add a shower, play with some pastels, paint, read, welcome a visitor, or walk to the mailbox, it’s a productive day.
Then when I get better, or my flare up ends, I’ll start leaving the house again.
What helps you get out of the house when you body is telling you otherwise?
It’s easy to lose interest in life when you’re consumed with pain, depression and other awful symptoms. I’ve found engaging with my illnesses and experience creatively very empowering.
You don’t have to be the next Van Gough, Ansel Adams, Sylvia Plath, PewDiePie or Alicia Keys to be creative. I have compiled a list if ‘creative’ things you can have a go at, even if you think you suck.
By creative, I mean expressing yourself in an imaginative, artistic, innovative, inspirational, personal or unique way. You can ‘creatively engage’ with your illness by using any creative medium to:
- process the pain and grief your illness has caused;
- externalise overwhelming feelings;
- articulate acceptance;
- rest and relax;
- create awareness about your illness;
- reach out for support;
- distract yourself for a while;
- innovate a way to re-engage with an activity your illness has prevented you from doing;
- encourage others to persevere;
- show others they’re not alone in their illness;
- remind yourself that you have hope;
- share your story and experience;
- reveal your resilience and strength;
- ask for support;
- project positivity;
- express gratitude, and
- break stigma.
Here is a list of 30 ways you can engage creatively as another tool to help you manage your journey with chronic illness.
1. Go for a stroll in the park, a walk on the beach or simply sit in your sunny backyard and take a few pictures. Anyone can take a photo of the grass, a tree, a bird, the clouds and the sun on their phone. If you’re feeling a bit crazy, add your favourite filter.
2. Pick a photo you have taken, or download a free stock image and add the cheesiest quote you can find (or your favourite quote or verse from scripture.) You can use a photo editing program (like Photoshop or GIMP), a website (like Canva), or even Microsoft Word.
3. Type and print encouraging statements with fun fonts to put on your wall.
4. Print your favourite family or holiday photos and make a collage. If you’re renting and don’t want to risk ruining the walls with blue tac, you can get a whiteboard or cork-board. I spray painted an ugly room divider to use as a giant pin board. …or you could finally scrapbook those holiday and baby photos.
5. Give colouring-in a try. The adult colouring in fad has taken the world by storm, have you tried it yet? Buy one from Kmart or your local bookstore, borrow your child’s activity book or find a picture to print through a ‘Google Images‘ search.
6.Communicate with pictures. Visualise your how you feel and what it’s like to live with your illness and paint or draw it.
7. Experiment! Go crazy, painting, sketching and blending with different mediums. Most variety shops sell (oil, soft and hard) pastels, charcoal, (acrylic, watercolour and oil) paint and canvas pads. Experimenting is fun and can be a great distraction. On bad days I’ve been known to see how many shades of black, white and grey I can mix into one picture. When I’m feeling a bit more optimistic, I’ll play with colour.
8. I’m an awful drawer, but sometimes it’s fun to sketch. My favourite is creating stick-figure comics.
9. Too scared to try karaoke? You can now download karaoke apps onto your phone or tablet to take ‘singing in the shower’ to the next level.
10. Pick up the musical instrument you haven’t played in years. We all have a recorder hidden at the back of our wardrobe. My preference is the guitar – after 10 years I still can’t read music.
11. Write a song to share what it’s like having your illness and encourage others.
12. Don’t have a musical bone in your body? Try changing the lyrics to a song or nursery rhyme.
13. Create playlists for every occasion: to relax, feel like singing, angst, fight songs, etc.
14. Make up an interpretive dance – I can never go past Vanessa Carlton’s 1000 Miles.
15. Write a short story.
16. Create a character you can relate to and write a monologue, one-act play, radio script or a short film to explore and communicate the characters journey.
17. Start a journal/diary, blogging or (and you don’t have to edit and publish it for the world to see, but if you have a laptop with a webcam) a video journal.
19.Write a letter to yourself.
20. Turn statistics, research and (accurate) medical information into an infographic.
21. Put on an apron and be a MasterChef by cooking your favourite cuisine or experimenting with a classic dish.
22. Create the next ‘Paralympic Sport’ – if there is a physical activity/sport you love, but can no longer play it due to your illness, come up with an adaptation that fits your physical
23. Knit! You can never have too many scarves, beanies or comfort blankets. This beautifully adorable yellow teddy was made by Lee Miller.
24. Give your alter ego life and make a (sock) puppet.
25. If you’re a gamer and can code, create a game related to your illness – I dream of playing an arcade game called “The Angry Uterus.”
26. Design a personal tattoo (which is in no way a commitment to get a tattoo).
27. Make some (awareness) jewellery.
28. Design a t-shirt and wear your message. You can never have too many awareness t-shirts! (Although my mother would disagree.)
29. Get pretty and expressive, experimenting with makeup and nail art. This fantastic body art is by Kiley Inman.
30. Download a meme generator and amuse yourself.
If you can afford it, pick a hobby/skill and invest in some lessons. I’ve chosen to prioritise a half an hour singing lesson every two weeks into my budget. I then record the lesson so I can continue to practice between classes. It is both empowering and encouraging to see the progress/development of that still over time.
Ask others to get involved; sometimes it’s nice just to relax with a friend and have fun together. Sometimes laughter is the best medicine. I’ve also had friends with artistic talent sit down and teach me for no cost.
The most important thing to remember is not to be a perfectionist. It’s not about the finished product; it’s about engaging with your illness, disease or disability in a creative way. Short-term, being creative will help you relax, decrease tension and give you another way to communicate. The long-term benefits of developing this habit is often insight, acceptance and healing.
I’d love to hear from you!
Do you have anything to share?
Do you have anything to add the list?
Have you noticed the benefits of engaging creatively with your illness?
This is step six in the grow program: I’ll endure until I’m cured.
I will persevere and I will fight. When I feel I can no longer withstand the discomfort and pain I can turn to my sisters to give me strength until I can see a glimpse of hope again.
I can hold onto God’s promise that says one day I will be healed completely. I will have a beautiful, disease free body. So, even if there may be no cure (for me: endo, PCOS or depression) in my lifetime, I know one day I will be completely cured from all that hurts me today.