Conversations With Healthy People #1: The Amusing, ‘Really?’

It’s days like today when I’m struggling to summon the energy to be a ‘functioning human being’ that I remember an honest and genuine conversation I had with one of my teenagers during Bible study a few months ago.

I recall this conversation to remind myself of God’s grace, strength and sustaining power that gets me through each day. It’s an encouragement to continue being honest about life, even when it’s painful and sucky. I must confess, it amuses me (greatly) and makes me giggle a little on the inside.

I also find comfort knowing that I can come back and read it whenever I need to.

We were discussing how God uses suffering to deepen our relationship with Him, better understand faith, build His Kingdom and bring Jesus glory. For the sake of application, I briefly mentioned that these truths give me hope, even though I am in pain every day…

…another interruption (but a welcomed one)…

“So, you’re really in pain?”

“All the time?”
“Uh, huh.”

“You don’t look like you’re in pain.”
“I know.”

“Wait! You were in pain on Friday night?”

“Are you saying that you’re actually in pain, right now?”
“You’ve got it.”

“…Like, now-now? Standing there?”

and then he slumped back into his chair with a sympathetic bewilderment written on his face. I think he started to understand, which I am grateful for, even if it was just a little.

This wasn’t the first time I’ve had this conversation, and it probably won’t be the last. So, I’ll continue to embrace the small opportunities to encourage open and honest dialogue. Conversations that develop empathy and grace to spur one another on to rely on God and persevere in suffering for the sake of God’s kingdom.

2 Timothy 2:10 (NLT) “So I am willing to endure anything if it will bring salvation and eternal glory in Christ Jesus to those God has chosen.”


5 thoughts on “Conversations With Healthy People #1: The Amusing, ‘Really?’

  1. Roos Ruse says:

    The way you acknowledge you will likely repeat the conversation makes me smile. The mind of the adolescent human amazes me. I don’t actually miss those years with my guys, but I remember them fondly – mow that they’re grown 😉 I’m sorry for the pain, but glad to know you get the reason God allows us to suffer. Wonderful post.<3


  2. messiah gate says:

    You know, we all go about our day — at least I do — seeing strangers here and there and thinking, “They’ve sure got it all together.” But, no. The reality is that everyone, I think, is walking around carrying burdens inside whether it be physical, emotional, spiritual, or other life issues.

    That’s where compassion comes in — to be able to look at another person and ask, “I wonder what their story is?” And, in a strange way, that connection — at least for the moment — takes our minds off of our own problems

    Like when Jesus stopped and asked blind Bartimaeus, “What can I do for you?”

    Knowing that He was going to the Cross our Savior did not stop caring for the needs of people. And it’s so true that thinking about others has a healing way of taking our minds off of ourselves.

    Thank you for your story.

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  3. Stetson says:

    Days, “struggling to function” are the worst. Though funny movies help me. Thanks for the follow and be sure to tag your Articles under Illness Adaptation to share and comb@ the illness.


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